‘You
are far too pretty to sit and weep for a wrong person who doesn’t deserve you’ Doreen Nasasira tips the lady
Makerereans on how to stop sobbing for men who pride in breaking their hearts;
Stop the excuses. If a man wants you,
nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, you cannot make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour; allow your intuitions to save
you from heart aches.
Stop trying to change yourself for a
relationship that is not meant to be, slower is better. Never live your life
for a man before you find that one who makes you truly happy.
Do not stay because you think it will get
better. You will be mad at yourself later for staying when things are not
better.
Avoid
men who have got a bunch of children by bunch of different women. He didn’t
marry them when he got them pregnant. Why would he treat you more differently?
Maintain boundaries in how guys treat you.
If something bothers you, speak up
He is a man, nothing more, nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. change comes from within.
Never borrow someone else’s man. If he
cheated with you, he will cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you allow
him to treat you.
All men are not dogs
You should not be the one doing all the
bending, compromise is a two way sheet
If a relationship ends because a man was not
treating you as you deserve, then you
cannot be friends. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
The only person you can control in a
relationship is you.
Always have your own set of friends
separated from his.
Never let a man know everything. He will use
it against you later.
Don’t over make him feel more important than
you are even when he has more education or a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
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